# Ardor (밀애)
**Ardor** (밀애, 密愛) is a 2002 South Korean drama film directed by Byun Young-joo, her first commercial feature, about a housewife whose marriage is shattered by her husband's affair and who enters a dangerous liaison with a married man in a rural village.[1](https://www.seoul.co.kr/news/2002/10/30/20021030015002) It was released in South Korea on November 7, 2002, runs 112 minutes, and was rated 19.[2](https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/films/index/filmsView.jsp?movieCd=20020279) The film adapts Jeon Gyeong-rin's novel *A Day That Comes Only Once in My Life* (내 생에 꼭 하루뿐일 특별한 날).[3](https://www.khan.co.kr/article/200210311556121)
| Key fact | Detail |
|---|---|
| Korean title | 밀애 (密愛), released internationally as *Ardor*[2](https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/films/index/filmsView.jsp?movieCd=20020279) |
| Director | Byun Young-joo, in her first commercial fiction feature after the documentary trilogy *Low Voice* (낮은 목소리)[1](https://www.seoul.co.kr/news/2002/10/30/20021030015002) • [4](https://www.busan.com/view/busan/view.php?code=20021031000277) |
| Source | Jeon Gyeong-rin's second novel, *내 생에 꼭 하루뿐일 특별한 날*[5](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14978) |
| Cast | Kim Yunjin as Mi-heun, Lee Jong-won as In-kyu, Kye Seong-yong as the husband Hyo-gyeong[6](https://tv.apple.com/kr/movie/ardor/umc.cmc.4sfjkmfpvp84cg5mzw5l47pln?l=en) |
| Release | November 7, 2002 (South Korea); 112 minutes; rating 19[2](https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/films/index/filmsView.jsp?movieCd=20020279) |
| Genre | Passionate melodrama (격정멜로) centered on adultery[7](https://www.koreafilm.co.kr/movie/review/ardor_r.htm) |
| Significance | Described by the Dong-A Ilbo as the first adultery film made by a female Korean director[8](https://www.donga.com/news/amp/all/20021031/7877823/1) |
## Spoilers
### Plot
Mi-heun (Kim Yunjin) is an ordinary housewife, married for eight years with an eight-year-old daughter. On the night before Christmas, her husband's hidden mistress arrives at the home and humiliates Mi-heun, and the film opens violently with this scene.[1](https://www.seoul.co.kr/news/2002/10/30/20021030015002) Six months later the family moves to a quiet rural village, where, in the Kyunghyang Shinmun's account, the husband runs a small bookstore and the daughter attends elementary school.[3](https://www.khan.co.kr/article/200210311556121) The Korean Film Council's English synopsis describes the husband as a quiet country doctor.[2](https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/films/index/filmsView.jsp?movieCd=20020279) Even in the village Mi-heun remains unsteady with loss, until she meets In-kyu (Lee Jong-won), a married doctor who sneers at the institution of marriage and proposes what the Seoul Shinmun calls a "time-limited game": meetings for pleasure without falling in love.[1](https://www.seoul.co.kr/news/2002/10/30/20021030015002) Hesitant at first, Mi-heun enters the affair as if to be compensated for her loss, and rumors of the relationship soon spread through the small town.[1](https://www.seoul.co.kr/news/2002/10/30/20021030015002) • [2](https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/films/index/filmsView.jsp?movieCd=20020279)
In interviews, Byun and Jeon emphasized that the story is not simply about a husband's betrayal. The mistress who appears on [Christmas Eve](https://www.edgepedia.org/christmas-eve) functions, in Byun's words, like the ghost in *A Christmas Carol*, a figure who curses Mi-heun and drives her to ask what would have happened had she never married her husband; the husband's affair matters less than the curse itself.[9](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14976) Jeon Gyeong-rin described Mi-heun as a protected middle-class woman who cannot simply walk out when betrayed, and said the film shows her accepting an opening that appears as she herself is damaged.[5](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14978)
## Production and source
Byun Young-joo came to fiction filmmaking from documentary. She first made her name with the 1993 documentary *Living as Women in Asia* (아시아에서 여성으로 산다는 것), and over roughly seven years directed the three-part *Low Voice* (낮은 목소리) documentaries about former comfort women.[4](https://www.busan.com/view/busan/view.php?code=20021031000277) *Ardor* began her run of commercial features, followed by *Flying Boys* (발레 교습소, 2004) and *The Train* (화차, 2012).[10](https://www.dbpia.co.kr/journal/articleDetail?nodeId=NODE10742097)
The film adapts Jeon Gyeong-rin's second novel. Byun said she insisted on keeping the novel's long title as the film's title but gave up after seeing fans misspell it, and considered alternatives including *Housewife Life* (주부생활) and *The Philosophy of the Wife's Inner Room* (부인 내실의 철학), the latter borrowed from a [René Magritte](https://www.edgepedia.org/rene-magritte) painting title.[9](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14976) She said she took from the novel only what she liked, including its long, literary but non-authoritarian dialogue.[9](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14976) A KoreaFilm review noted that the film carries something of Jeon's cold, magnetic prose style, restraining the viewer's emotional identification while quietly drawing them into the film's allure.[7](https://www.koreafilm.co.kr/movie/review/ardor_r.htm)
## Reception and interpretation
**A divided preview response.** At the press screening before release, reactions split noticeably by gender: male critics reported disappointment, while women defended it as a film that understands women's minds. Critic Shim Young-seop called it a film for the 386 generation, built on an obsession with the price of sin, in contrast to *Marriage Is a Crazy Thing*, a bright fable for twenty-somethings without a sense of original guilt about adultery. Premiere editor Choi Bo-eun praised it as a film faithful to women's bodies and desires, made by a director who knows the female body.[8](https://www.donga.com/news/amp/all/20021031/7877823/1)
**Place in Korean adultery films.** Cine21 placed *Ardor* within a wave of early-2000s adultery films by promising new directors, alongside *Happy End* and *An Affair*, and argued that the film broke the conventions of the commercial adultery genre: where heroines from *Anna Karenina* onward typically died or were cast out as the price of realizing an adulterous love, Byun's ending quietly impresses that the woman remains alive, a three-dimensional being with ontological volume.[11](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14938) A 2007 academic study of women's sexuality and the marriage system in Korean cinema described *Ardor* as expressing female-centered sexuality well, and a 2002 year-end survey in Cine21 noted that the film raised adultery to the level of a motive for human awakening.[12](https://journal.kci.go.kr/ccs/archive/articlePdf?artiId=ART001305529) • [13](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=16066) Not all reviews were favorable; one Cine21 essay argued the film is neither a successful melodrama nor simply a "woman's film," reading it instead as a disaster-survival story about a woman who barely survives a life indistinguishable from death.[14](https://host.cine21.com/news/view/?idx=0&mag_id=15408)
The Seoul Shinmun's reviewer praised Kim Yunjin's psychologically realistic portrayal of loss and emptiness, and quoted Byun defending the ending: Mi-heun, standing alone having abandoned everything, is the youngest and most vital she has been.[1](https://www.seoul.co.kr/news/2002/10/30/20021030015002) The film later streamed internationally under the title *Ardor*, described by Netflix as a critically acclaimed Korean romance about a housewife lured into a passionate liaison with a village doctor.[15](https://www.netflix.com/kr-en/title/80231317)
## References
1. [영화 '밀애'는/ 어느날 남편의 숨겨둔 애인이… 여성의 시각서 찍은 격정멜로, 서울신문 (2002-10-30)](https://www.seoul.co.kr/news/2002/10/30/20021030015002)
2. [Ardor (2002), Korean Film Council film database](https://www.koreanfilm.or.kr/eng/films/index/filmsView.jsp?movieCd=20020279)
3. [［새영화］변영주감독 첫 극영화 '밀애', 경향신문 (2002-10-31)](https://www.khan.co.kr/article/200210311556121)
4. [변영주 감독이 말하는 은밀한 사랑 '밀애', 부산일보 (2002-10-31)](https://www.busan.com/view/busan/view.php?code=20021031000277)
5. [밀애(密愛)밀담(密談) 변영주, 전경린과 스치다(1), Cine21 (2002-11-14)](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14978)
6. [Ardor, Apple TV](https://tv.apple.com/kr/movie/ardor/umc.cmc.4sfjkmfpvp84cg5mzw5l47pln?l=en)
7. [밀 애, KoreaFilm 영화리뷰](https://www.koreafilm.co.kr/movie/review/ardor_r.htm)
8. [［씨네리뷰］밀애 '격정' 멜로인가 '걱정' 멜로인가, 동아일보 (2002-10-31)](https://www.donga.com/news/amp/all/20021031/7877823/1)
9. [밀애(密愛)밀담(密談) 변영주, 전경린과 스치다(3), Cine21 (2002-11-14)](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14976)
10. [변영주 감독 영화 속 사회 비판적 메시지에 관한 고찰, 기억과 전망 제40호 (2019), DBpia](https://www.dbpia.co.kr/journal/articleDetail?nodeId=NODE10742097)
11. [통속적인 불륜영화의 틀을 깨뜨린 <밀애>, Cine21 (2002-11-14)](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=14938)
12. [유진월, 여성의 섹슈얼리티와 결혼/가족제도의 변모양상 연구, 한국언론학회보 (2007)](https://journal.kci.go.kr/ccs/archive/articlePdf?artiId=ART001305529)
13. [섹스와 폭력코드로 본 2002년 한국영화의 어떤 경향, Cine21 (2002-12-26)](https://cine21.com/news/view/?mag_id=16066)
14. [<밀애>, 멜로영화인가 재난영화인가, Cine21 (2002-11-28)](https://host.cine21.com/news/view/?idx=0&mag_id=15408)
15. [Ardor, Netflix](https://www.netflix.com/kr-en/title/80231317)
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