# Debra Winger
**Debra Winger** (born 1955) is an American film and television actress known for her portrayals of strong-willed women in a series of critically acclaimed films of the early 1980s, including *Urban Cowboy*, *An Officer and a Gentleman*, and *Terms of Endearment*. She received Academy Award nominations for Best Actress for *An Officer and a Gentleman* (1982), *Terms of Endearment* (1983), and *Shadowlands* (1993), and following that success, she took a six-year hiatus before returning to film with *Big Bad Love* (2001) and later appearing in *Rachel Getting Married* (2008)[14](https://www.sonyclassics.com/rachelgettingmarried/externalLoads/rachelgettingmarried_presskit.pdf).
| Key fact | Detail |
|---|---|
| Born | 1955, Cleveland, Ohio; family of Austrian-Hungarian and Russian Empire Jewish origin[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true) |
| Major nominations | Three Academy Awards (Best Actress), five Golden Globes, two BAFTAs, one Primetime Emmy[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/) • [3](https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/69963/debra-winger/) |
| Breakthrough role | Sissy in *Urban Cowboy* (1980), a part almost every young actress pursued after Sissy Spacek declined it[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true) |
| Critics' recognition | National Society of Film Critics Award for Best Actress, *Terms of Endearment*, 1984[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/) |
| Career break | Left Hollywood around 1995, telling her agent to accept no more scripts; returned to feature films with *Big Bad Love* (2001); she later appeared in *Rachel Getting Married* (2008)[4](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html) • [14](https://www.sonyclassics.com/rachelgettingmarried/externalLoads/rachelgettingmarried_presskit.pdf) |
| Later career | Television work including *In Treatment* (2008), *The Red Tent* (2014), and *The Ranch* (2016); first leading role in more than 20 years in *The Lovers* (2017)[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true) |
## Early life and accident
Winger was born in Cleveland, Ohio, to Ruth Felder, an office manager, and Robert Jack Winger, a meat packer; her maternal grandparents called her Mary and her father named her Debra after the actress [Debra Paget](https://www.edgepedia.org/debra-paget)[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true). The family moved to California in her childhood[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true). She graduated high school at 15, enrolled in college majoring in criminology, and worked part-time at a local amusement park, where she was thrown from a truck and suffered serious injuries[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true).
The accident left her temporarily blind and, by one account, partially paralyzed; in her own recollection she was blind for close to a year, at 17[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true) • [5](https://www.the-independent.com/arts-entertainment/films/features/debra-winger-the-return-of-a-class-act-971262.html). While hospitalized she vowed to pursue acting if she recovered. She later described the experience as a turning point: "it did give me some ballast at that age that I might not have had," and it made her aware of the stigma attached to disability[4](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html).
## Breakthrough and the 1980s
After recovering, she abandoned college, studied acting, and appeared in commercials and 1970s television, playing Diana Prince's younger sister Drusilla ([Wonder Girl](https://www.edgepedia.org/wonder-girl)) on *Wonder Woman*, before making her feature debut in *Slumber Party '57* (1976)[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true) • [6](https://catalog.afi.com/Person/248472-Debra-Winger?cp=1&cxt=Cast2&pos=0&sid=4ad1bb3a-350c-4d30-a210-3b0523caa925&sr=0.3113714). Her next two films, *Thank God It's Friday* (1978) and *French Postcards* (1979), did little for her career[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true).
Her breakthrough came with *Urban Cowboy* (1980), opposite [John Travolta](https://www.edgepedia.org/john-travolta), in the role of Sissy[6](https://catalog.afi.com/Person/248472-Debra-Winger?cp=1&cxt=Cast2&pos=0&sid=4ad1bb3a-350c-4d30-a210-3b0523caa925&sr=0.3113714). The film's success launched her into Hollywood's mainstream[7](https://www.tribute.ca/people/biography/debra-winger/9163/), and she earned Golden Globe nominations for both Best Supporting Actress and New Star of the Year for it, as well as a BAFTA nomination as Most Outstanding Newcomer to Leading Film Roles[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/).
The three Oscar-nominated performances that followed defined her reputation. As Paula Pokrifki in *An Officer and a Gentleman* (1982), opposite [Richard Gere](https://www.edgepedia.org/richard-gere), she received her first Best Actress nomination[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/). As Emma Horton in *Terms of Endearment* (1983), she was again nominated and won the National Society of Film Critics Award for Best Actress[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/). In *Shadowlands* (1993) she played the poet Joy Gresham opposite [Anthony Hopkins](https://www.edgepedia.org/anthony-hopkins), earning her third nomination along with BAFTA and Golden Globe nominations[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/).
The [American Film Institute](https://www.edgepedia.org/american-film-institute) catalog also credits her as one of the voices of E.T. in *E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial* (1982), a credit she shares on screen with a [Halloween](https://www.edgepedia.org/halloween) cameo[6](https://catalog.afi.com/Person/248472-Debra-Winger?cp=1&cxt=Cast2&pos=0&sid=4ad1bb3a-350c-4d30-a210-3b0523caa925&sr=0.3113714) • [8](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/). A persistent rumor attached her voice to the character, but another account says the uncredited Pat Welsh performed it[9](https://www.who2.com/bio/debra-winger/).
Her filmography through the period also includes *Mike's Murder* (1984), *Legal Eagles* (1986), *Black Widow* (1987), *Betrayed* (1988), *Everybody Wins* and *The Sheltering Sky* (both 1990), and *A Dangerous Woman* (1993)[6](https://catalog.afi.com/Person/248472-Debra-Winger?cp=1&cxt=Cast2&pos=0&sid=4ad1bb3a-350c-4d30-a210-3b0523caa925&sr=0.3113714). In [Bernardo Bertolucci](https://www.edgepedia.org/bernardo-bertolucci)'s *The Sheltering Sky*, she played Kit Moresby in an adaptation of [Paul Bowles](https://www.edgepedia.org/paul-bowles)'s novel; Bertolucci praised her, saying "Debra es un Stradivarius que se toca solo" (Debra is a [Stradivarius](https://www.edgepedia.org/stradivarius) that plays itself)[8](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/).
**Reputation for difficulty.** Off screen, Winger acquired a reputation for clashing with collaborators. She called Gere "a brick wall" and director [Taylor Hackford](https://www.edgepedia.org/taylor-hackford) "an animal"; she fought with co-stars [Shirley MacLaine](https://www.edgepedia.org/shirley-maclaine) and [John Malkovich](https://www.edgepedia.org/john-malkovich); and she walked off the set of *A League of Their Own* when director Penny Marshall hired Madonna[4](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html) • [5](https://www.the-independent.com/arts-entertainment/films/features/debra-winger-the-return-of-a-class-act-971262.html). Other collaborators spoke warmly of her: Bob Rafelson said "no actress I've worked with has sharper instinct," and her *Urban Cowboy* director James Bridges praised her work[10](https://www.rogerebert.com/features/on-her-own-terms-the-work-of-debra-winger). Winger later described the tough persona as deliberate armor: "It kept the fainthearted at a distance. But perhaps I was too tough. It was overkill"[11](https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2008-oct-04-et-winger4-story.html).
## Departure from Hollywood
Around 1995, Winger told her agent not to accept any more scripts and left the film industry[4](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html). One account has her deciding while driving in Ireland, stopping the car and declaring "se acabó" (it's over)[8](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/). She later explained that the compressed pace of production, with a script arriving and filming beginning within three or four weeks, had cost her the preparation time she valued[8](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/).
During the years away she taught a course in "The Literature of Social Reflection" at Harvard for a year, traveled to China in search of giant pandas, and moved to upstate New York with her second husband[4](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html). She worked in made-for-television films, including *Sometimes in April* (as US official Prudence Bushnell during the [Rwandan genocide](https://www.edgepedia.org/rwandan-genocide)) and *Dawn Anna*, about a woman whose daughter was shot in the Columbine school incident; *Dawn Anna* brought her an Emmy nomination for Outstanding Lead Actress in a [Miniseries](https://www.edgepedia.org/miniseries) or a Movie in 2005[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/) • [4](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html).
Her six-year absence from features became the occasion for Rosanna Arquette's 2002 documentary *Searching for Debra Winger*, which examined the difficulties actresses face as they age in Hollywood[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true) • [3](https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/69963/debra-winger/).
## Return
Jonathan Demme repeatedly pressed Winger to return, and after coming back to feature films with *Big Bad Love* in 2001, she appeared in 2008 as Abby, the estranged mother in *Rachel Getting Married*, opposite Anne Hathaway[8](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/) • [11](https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2008-oct-04-et-winger4-story.html) • [14](https://www.sonyclassics.com/rachelgettingmarried/externalLoads/rachelgettingmarried_presskit.pdf). The performance earned nominations from the Gotham Awards, the Independent Spirit Awards, the Critics' Choice Awards, and the New York Film Critics Circle[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/). The same year she published a memoir, *Undiscovered*, with Simon & Schuster; its publisher, David Rosenthal, called her writing skilled and opinionated, with "a clear vision of what she wants"[11](https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2008-oct-04-et-winger4-story.html).
Feature film work did not return at the volume of her 1980s career, and she concentrated on television: a seven-episode arc on *In Treatment* (2008), *The Red Tent* (2014), a regular role as Maggie Bennett on *The Ranch* (2016), and a recurring part in *Patriot* (2015)[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true) • [12](https://www.metacritic.com/person/debra-winger/). Azazel Jacobs's *The Lovers* (2017) gave her her first leading role in more than 20 years[10](https://www.rogerebert.com/features/on-her-own-terms-the-work-of-debra-winger). Her most recent screen appearance cited in available film listings is Miranda July's *Kajillionaire* (2020)[13](https://www.movieinsider.com/p131/debra-winger).
## Personal life
Winger married actor Timothy Hutton in 1986; the marriage lasted about four years and produced her first son[8](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/) • [11](https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2008-oct-04-et-winger4-story.html). She later had a relationship with Bob Kerry, then Governor of Nebraska, and in 1996 married the actor-director Arliss Howard, with whom she has a second son and with whom she has occasionally worked, including on *Dawn Anna*[5](https://www.the-independent.com/arts-entertainment/films/features/debra-winger-the-return-of-a-class-act-971262.html) • [8](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/) • [11](https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2008-oct-04-et-winger4-story.html). Since 2003 she has traveled for the charity Sightsavers to Belize, Kenya, and India, work connected to her own experience of temporary blindness as a teenager[4](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html).
## References
1. [Debra Winger – IMDb](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/?showAllCredits=true)
2. [Debra Winger – Awards, IMDb](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000700/awards/)
3. [Debra Winger, Penguin Random House author page](https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/69963/debra-winger/)
4. [Debra Winger: A woman of substance, The Independent (2005)](https://www.the-independent.com/news/people/profiles/debra-winger-a-woman-of-substance-490439.html)
5. [Debra Winger: The return of a class act, The Independent (2008)](https://www.the-independent.com/arts-entertainment/films/features/debra-winger-the-return-of-a-class-act-971262.html)
6. [Debra Winger filmography, AFI Catalog](https://catalog.afi.com/Person/248472-Debra-Winger?cp=1&cxt=Cast2&pos=0&sid=4ad1bb3a-350c-4d30-a210-3b0523caa925&sr=0.3113714)
7. [Debra Winger biography, Tribute.ca](https://www.tribute.ca/people/biography/debra-winger/9163/)
8. [Debra Winger: La estrella olvidada, Cadena SER (2025)](https://cadenaser.com/nacional/2025/05/12/debra-winger-la-estrella-olvidada-cadena-ser/)
9. [Debra Winger biography, Who2](https://www.who2.com/bio/debra-winger/)
10. [On Her Own Terms: The Work of Debra Winger, RogerEbert.com](https://www.rogerebert.com/features/on-her-own-terms-the-work-of-debra-winger)
11. [Showing her soft edges, Los Angeles Times (2008)](https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2008-oct-04-et-winger4-story.html)
12. [Debra Winger, Metacritic](https://www.metacritic.com/person/debra-winger/)
13. [Debra Winger film credits, Movie Insider](https://www.movieinsider.com/p131/debra-winger)
14. [sonyclassics.com](https://www.sonyclassics.com/rachelgettingmarried/externalLoads/rachelgettingmarried_presskit.pdf)
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