# Melissa Rycroft
**Melissa Rycroft** (Melissa Katherine Rycroft-Strickland; born 1983) is an American television personality, host, and dancer from Dallas, Texas, known for competing on season 13 of *The Bachelor*, finishing third on season 8 of *Dancing with the Stars*, and winning that show's All-Stars season in 2012.[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3303116/) • [2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) She first appeared on television as a Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader on the CMT reality series *Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders: Making the Team*.[3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/)
| Key fact | Detail |
|---|---|
| Born | 1983, Dallas, Texas[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3303116/) |
| Education | University of North Texas, degree in marketing, 2005; attended the University of Oklahoma her freshman year[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) |
| Cheerleading | Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader for the 2006 and 2007 seasons, featured on CMT's *Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders: Making the Team*[4](https://www.dallascowboys.com/news/dancing-with-our-stars-368846) |
| *The Bachelor* | Season 13 (2009); proposed to by Jason Mesnick in the finale, then dumped on the *After the Final Rose* special in favor of runner-up Molly Malaney[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) |
| *Dancing with the Stars* | Third place, season 8 (2009), with Tony Dovolani; winner, All-Stars season (2012), with the same partner[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) |
| Marriage | Married insurance salesman Tye Strickland on December 12, 2009, in Isla Mujeres, Mexico; three children[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3303116/) • [3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/) |
| Book | *My Reality* (2012), about her life on reality television[5](https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Melissa-Rycroft/80524243) |
## Early life and dance background
Rycroft grew up in the Dallas area and began dance classes at a young age at her mother's urging; her mother had wanted to be a dancer herself and never had the opportunity.[3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/) • [6](https://www.dallasobserver.com/arts/former-bachelor-contestant-and-cowboys-cheerleader-melissa-rycroft-talks-new-gig-as-host-of-dallas-morning-dose-9900960) She was a drill team officer at Newman Smith High School in Carrollton, graduating in 2001, and was co-captain of the North Texas Dancers at the [University of North Texas](https://www.edgepedia.org/university-of-north-texas), where she earned a marketing degree in 2005.[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) • [7](https://northtexan.unt.edu/issues/2012-winter/unt-reality-stars.html)
## Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders
After college, Rycroft auditioned for the [Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders](https://www.edgepedia.org/dallas-cowboys-cheerleaders) in 2006, a decision she later said followed a bad breakup and a spur-of-the-moment response to a television ad for auditions.[3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/) • [8](https://www.momtastic.com/parenting/657945-melissa-rycroft-on-how-being-a-dallas-cowboys-cheerleader-made-her-a-better-mom/) She made the squad for the [2006 NFL season](https://www.edgepedia.org/2006-nfl-season) and cheered for the Cowboys in 2006 and 2007.[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) • [4](https://www.dallascowboys.com/news/dancing-with-our-stars-368846) As a cheerleader she appeared regularly on CMT's *Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders: Making the Team*, and in later years she returned to the show as a mentor, showmanship coach, and recurring judge.[9](https://www.realitytvworld.com/realitytvdb/melissa-rycroft/biography) • [6](https://www.dallasobserver.com/arts/former-bachelor-contestant-and-cowboys-cheerleader-melissa-rycroft-talks-new-gig-as-host-of-dallas-morning-dose-9900960) • [10](https://hollywoodlife.com/2018/08/30/dcc-making-the-team-season-13-melissa-rycroft-interview/amp/) DCC director [Kelli Finglass](https://www.edgepedia.org/kelli-finglass), who nicknamed her "Punky Brewster" at the 2006 auditions, later wrote a congratulatory piece when Rycroft won *Dancing with the Stars*.[4](https://www.dallascowboys.com/news/dancing-with-our-stars-368846)
## The Bachelor
Rycroft competed on the 13th season of ABC's *The Bachelor* in 2009 as one of 25 women vying for single father [Jason Mesnick](https://www.edgepedia.org/jason-mesnick).[9](https://www.realitytvworld.com/realitytvdb/melissa-rycroft/biography) • [2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) In the season finale, Mesnick chose Rycroft over runner-up Molly Malaney and proposed.[9](https://www.realitytvworld.com/realitytvdb/melissa-rycroft/biography) Weeks later, on the *After the Final Rose* special taped about six weeks after the engagement, he broke off the engagement on national television and said he wanted to be with Malaney, whom he later married in 2010.[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) • [9](https://www.realitytvworld.com/realitytvdb/melissa-rycroft/biography) The finale drew outrage from viewers, and Mesnick became a focus of public derision while Rycroft received an outpouring of sympathy.[11](https://abcnews.com/amp/Health/MindMoodNews/story?id=7006061&page=1) • [2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/)
Mesnick later disputed how the breakup was staged. In an interview with the *Los Angeles Times*, he said he had actually ended the relationship with Rycroft by phone a week before the taping, and the show's creator and producer told TVGuide.com that Mesnick was under "no contractual obligation" to dump her on-air.[12](https://www.latimes.com/archives/blogs/show-tracker/story/2009-03-04/the-bachelors-jason-mesnick-everyone-thinks-im-dragging-melissa-over-the-coals) • [13](https://www.tvguide.com/news/bachelor-bastard-liar-1003651/) Rycroft has said the experience left her feeling lost at the time, but that it brought her to her husband and her career.[14](https://www.cbsnews.com/news/dancing-with-the-stars-champion-melissa-rycroft-picks-a-winner/)
## Dancing with the Stars
Rycroft joined season 8 of *Dancing with the Stars* in 2009 as a last-minute replacement for [Nancy O'Dell](https://www.edgepedia.org/nancy-odell), who had suffered an injury, and was partnered with Tony Dovolani; the pair finished in third place.[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) • [9](https://www.realitytvworld.com/realitytvdb/melissa-rycroft/biography) During her first stint, a rib injury prevented her from performing the jive for one week, but she continued competing and finished third.[15](https://www.tvguide.com/news/dancing-melissa-rycroft-1053902/) • [23](https://www.latimes.com/archives/blogs/show-tracker/story/2009-04-28/dancing-with-the-stars-off-their-marks)
In 2012 she returned with Dovolani for *Dancing with the Stars: All-Stars*, a season of former contestants, and the pair won the mirror ball trophy in the finale, beating fellow former champions Shawn Johnson and [Kelly Monaco](https://www.edgepedia.org/kelly-monaco).[2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) • [16](https://bachelornation.com/2020/11/25/this-week-in-bachelor-nation-history-melissa-rycroft-wins-mirrorball-dancing-with-the-stars/) Rycroft said she never expected to win against competitors she considered powerhouses, and she described learning a new dance each week as "like you're trying to learn a different language every week in four days".[7](https://northtexan.unt.edu/issues/2012-winter/unt-reality-stars.html) • [14](https://www.cbsnews.com/news/dancing-with-the-stars-champion-melissa-rycroft-picks-a-winner/) In 2015 she helped the show's professional dancers unveil the opening number for the nationwide Perfect Ten Tour.[17](https://time.com/3854931/dancing-with-the-stars-dwts-recap-semifinal-rumer-willis-riker-lynch-nastia-liukin-noah-galloway-derek-hough/)
## Broadcasting and other television work
Rycroft moved into hosting and correspondence work after her reality show appearances. She was a special correspondent for *Good Morning America* and co-hosted *Dick Clark's Primetime New Year's Rockin' Eve* with [Ryan Seacrest](https://www.edgepedia.org/ryan-seacrest) in 2009, worked as a correspondent on *Entertainment Tonight*, and co-hosted the first season of *Bachelor Pad*, the Bachelor franchise spin-off, in 2010.[18](https://www.tvguide.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/bio/3030203685/) • [2](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/) • [19](https://www.tvguide.com/news/bachelor-pad-rycroft-1021628/) Her other credits include hosting CMT's *Redneck Island* and the CW's Dallas morning show *Morning Dose*, and starring with her husband in the CMT reality series *Melissa & Tye* (2012), which followed their commuter marriage between Los Angeles and Dallas.[3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/) • [6](https://www.dallasobserver.com/arts/former-bachelor-contestant-and-cowboys-cheerleader-melissa-rycroft-talks-new-gig-as-host-of-dallas-morning-dose-9900960) • [20](https://www.thewrap.com/melissa-rycroft-doesnt-expect-long-term-fame-34419/)
In 2012 she published the book *My Reality* with [Simon & Schuster](https://www.edgepedia.org/simon-and-schuster), detailing her life on reality television and her relationship with Tye Strickland.[5](https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Melissa-Rycroft/80524243) • [18](https://www.tvguide.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/bio/3030203685/) She and her husband later co-hosted the podcast *Logically Irrational*, covering relationships, family, pop culture, and reality television.[3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/) • [21](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/logically-irrational/id1440623097)
## Personal life
Rycroft reunited with Tye Strickland, a salesman she had dated on and off in Texas and had met in 2006, after her split from Mesnick, and the two married on December 12, 2009, in a sunset beach ceremony in [Isla Mujeres](https://www.edgepedia.org/isla-mujeres), Mexico, after a six-month engagement.[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3303116/) • [3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/) They have three children: Ava Grace (born 2011), Beckett Thomas (born 2014), and Cayson Jack (born 2016).[3](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/) The family lives in the Dallas-Fort Worth area.[7](https://northtexan.unt.edu/issues/2012-winter/unt-reality-stars.html)
In September 2025, Rycroft was arrested in Texas for driving while intoxicated, with a reported blood alcohol concentration of .26 percent, three times the state's legal limit.[22](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/melissa-rycroft-avoids-jail-time-for-dwi-arrest-plea-details/) In August 2026 she pleaded guilty and was sentenced to 20 months of probation and a $2,000 fine instead of 280 days in jail, with total court obligations of $2,087.[22](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/melissa-rycroft-avoids-jail-time-for-dwi-arrest-plea-details/)
## References
1. [Melissa Rycroft, IMDb](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3303116/)
2. [Melissa Rycroft - Personality, Host, Dancer, TV Insider](https://www.tvinsider.com/people/melissa-rycroft/)
3. [Melissa Rycroft News, Us Weekly](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/)
4. [Dancing With Our Stars, by Kelli Finglass, Dallas Cowboys](https://www.dallascowboys.com/news/dancing-with-our-stars-368846)
5. [Melissa Rycroft, Official Publisher Page, Simon & Schuster](https://www.simonandschuster.com/authors/Melissa-Rycroft/80524243)
6. [New Dallas Morning Show Host Melissa Rycroft Says Waking Up at 3 a.m. Is Great, Dallas Observer](https://www.dallasobserver.com/arts/former-bachelor-contestant-and-cowboys-cheerleader-melissa-rycroft-talks-new-gig-as-host-of-dallas-morning-dose-9900960)
7. [UNT Reality Stars, University of North Texas](https://northtexan.unt.edu/issues/2012-winter/unt-reality-stars.html)
8. [Being a Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader Made Me a Better Mom, Momtastic](https://www.momtastic.com/parenting/657945-melissa-rycroft-on-how-being-a-dallas-cowboys-cheerleader-made-her-a-better-mom/)
9. [Melissa Rycroft Biography, Reality TV World](https://www.realitytvworld.com/realitytvdb/melissa-rycroft/biography)
10. [DCC: Making The Team Season 13 - Melissa Rycroft Interview, HollywoodLife](https://hollywoodlife.com/2018/08/30/dcc-making-the-team-season-13-melissa-rycroft-interview/amp/)
11. [Harsh 'Reality': Bachelor's Emotional Impact?, ABC News](https://abcnews.com/amp/Health/MindMoodNews/story?id=7006061&page=1)
12. [The Bachelor's Jason Mesnick: 'Everyone thinks I'm dragging Melissa over the coals', Los Angeles Times](https://www.latimes.com/archives/blogs/show-tracker/story/2009-03-04/the-bachelors-jason-mesnick-everyone-thinks-im-dragging-melissa-over-the-coals)
13. [Bachelor "a Bastard" and a Liar? Producer Says He Didn't Have to Dump Melissa On-Air, TV Guide](https://www.tvguide.com/news/bachelor-bastard-liar-1003651/)
14. ["Dancing with the Stars": Champion Melissa Rycroft picks a winner, CBS News](https://www.cbsnews.com/news/dancing-with-the-stars-champion-melissa-rycroft-picks-a-winner/)
15. [Dancing's Melissa Rycroft: I'm More Focused This Time, TV Guide](https://www.tvguide.com/news/dancing-melissa-rycroft-1053902/)
16. [This Week in Bachelor Nation History: Melissa Rycroft Wins the Mirrorball on 'DWTS: All-Stars', Bachelor Nation](https://bachelornation.com/2020/11/25/this-week-in-bachelor-nation-history-melissa-rycroft-wins-mirrorball-dancing-with-the-stars/)
17. [Dancing With the Stars Recap: Final Four, Time](https://time.com/3854931/dancing-with-the-stars-dwts-recap-semifinal-rumer-willis-riker-lynch-nastia-liukin-noah-galloway-derek-hough/)
18. [Melissa Rycroft Biography, TV Guide](https://www.tvguide.com/celebrities/melissa-rycroft/bio/3030203685/)
19. [Bachelor Pad's Melissa Rycroft: "The Drama is Unreal", TV Guide](https://www.tvguide.com/news/bachelor-pad-rycroft-1021628/)
20. [Melissa Rycroft Doesn't Expect Long-Term Fame, TheWrap](https://www.thewrap.com/melissa-rycroft-doesnt-expect-long-term-fame-34419/)
21. [Logically Irrational, Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/logically-irrational/id1440623097)
22. [Bachelor's Melissa Rycroft Avoids Jail Time After DWI Arrest: Plea Details Revealed, Us Weekly](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/melissa-rycroft-avoids-jail-time-for-dwi-arrest-plea-details/)
23. ['Dancing With the Stars': Off their marks](https://www.latimes.com/archives/blogs/show-tracker/story/2009-04-28/dancing-with-the-stars-off-their-marks)
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