# Simon Gray
**Simon Gray** (full name Simon James Holliday Gray; 21 October 1936 – 7 August 2008) was an English playwright, novelist, and diarist whose bitingly comic plays about the educated British middle class, including *Butley*, *Otherwise Engaged*, and *Quartermaine's Terms*, ran alongside a late-flowering career as a confessional memoirist.[1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [2](https://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/08/theater/08gray-1.html) He wrote more than 30 stage plays, five novels, and numerous works for television, radio, and film, and from 1984 kept a series of diaries that included *The Smoking Diaries* series.[1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/)
| Key fact | Detail |
|---|---|
| Full name and dates | Simon James Holliday Gray, born on Hayling Island on 21 October 1936; died in London in August 2008, aged 71[4](https://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n50033514.html) • [1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [2](https://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/08/theater/08gray-1.html) |
| Output | More than 30 stage plays, five novels (all published by Faber), and numerous TV, radio, and film scripts[1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/) |
| Signature plays | *Butley* (1971), *Otherwise Engaged* (1974), *Close of Play* (1979), *Quartermaine's Terms*, *The Common Pursuit*, *The Late Middle Classes* (1999)[6](https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2008/aug/07/simongray.theatre) • [1](https://simongray.org.uk/) |
| Pinter partnership | Harold Pinter directed 10 separate productions of Gray's works, beginning with *Butley*; Alan Bates starred in 11 of Gray's works[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) |
| Diaries | Eight volumes beginning in 1984, including *The Smoking Diaries* (2004) and the posthumous *Coda* (November 2008)[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) • [7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) |
| Honours | Evening Standard Best Play awards for *Butley* and *Otherwise Engaged*; Prix Italia for *After Pilkington*; Emmy for *Unnatural Pursuits*; BAFTA Writer's Award (1990); CBE in the 2005 New Year's Honours[5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/) • [1](https://simongray.org.uk/) |
## Life and education
Gray was born on [Hayling Island](https://www.edgepedia.org/hayling-island), Hampshire, the son of James, a Scots general practitioner who became a pathologist, and Barbara, née Holliday, a former Olympic athlete. At the age of three he was evacuated to Canada with his elder brother Nigel, and he spent much of his childhood moving between Canada and England.[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) • [7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/)
He was educated at Portsmouth Grammar School and [Westminster School](https://www.edgepedia.org/westminster-school), attended [Dalhousie University](https://www.edgepedia.org/dalhousie-university) in [Halifax, Nova Scotia](https://www.edgepedia.org/halifax-nova-scotia), and then Trinity College, Cambridge. His first novel, *Colmain*, written while he was at Cambridge, was published by Faber & Faber in 1963, the first of five novels all issued by that house.[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) • [5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/) After Cambridge he lectured in English at Queen Mary College, University of London, for 20 years.[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) • [8](https://strasberg.edu/blog/playwright/simon-gray/)
He died in London in August 2008, aged 71, from an abdominal aortic aneurysm brought on by cancer. The official site gives the date as 7 August 2008, while the Library of Congress authority record records 6 August 2008.[1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [4](https://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n50033514.html) • [7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) The BnF authority record gives his birth date as 20 October 1936, one day earlier than the 21 October given by the Library of Congress and the official site.[9](https://catalogue.bnf.fr/ark:/12148/cb12169728b) The BnF also notes that he wrote under the pseudonym Hamish Reade.[9](https://catalogue.bnf.fr/ark:/12148/cb12169728b)
## Plays and theatrical career
Gray's first stage play was *Wise Child* (1967; New York, 1972), starring [Alec Guinness](https://www.edgepedia.org/alec-guinness) in London in a travesty role.[10](https://www.oxfordreference.com/viewbydoi/10.1093/acref/9780192825742.013.1326) His reputation, however, was made by a run of comedies of manners set among academics, lawyers, and ex-public-schoolboys. *Butley* (1971) began his long partnership with [Harold Pinter](https://www.edgepedia.org/harold-pinter) as director, while his association with [Alan Bates](https://www.edgepedia.org/alan-bates) had already begun with the 1967 television play *The Death of Teddy Bear*; Pinter went on to direct 10 separate productions of Gray's works for stage, film, and television, and Bates starred in 11 of Gray's works.[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) • [7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) *Otherwise Engaged* (1974) was a massive West End success.[7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) The Guardian's obituary dates the play 1975, one year later than the BFI.[6](https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2008/aug/07/simongray.theatre)
**Later plays.** *Close of Play* (1979), *Quartermaine's Terms*, *The Common Pursuit*, *Hidden Laughter*, *The Late Middle Classes* (1999), *Japes*, *The Old Masters*, and *Little Nell* followed.[1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [6](https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2008/aug/07/simongray.theatre) *Butley* and *Otherwise Engaged* both received Evening Standard Awards for Best Play, and *The Late Middle Classes* won the Barclay's Best Play Award.[5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/) *Little Nell* was first broadcast on [BBC Radio 4](https://www.edgepedia.org/bbc-radio-4) in 2006 and premiered on stage at the Theatre Royal Bath in 2007, directed by [Peter Hall](https://www.edgepedia.org/peter-hall-director).[5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/)
## Screen and television work
Gray's first television play was *The Caramel Crisis* (*Thirty Minute Theatre*, BBC, transmitted 25 April 1966); *Wise Child* was rejected by the BBC over its transvestite lead. *The Death of Teddy Bear* (*The Wednesday Play*, BBC, transmitted 15 February 1967) marked the beginning of his collaboration with Alan Bates.[7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) Pinter also directed the 1974 film version of *Butley*.[7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) On television, *After Pilkington* (BBC, transmitted 25 January 1987) won the Prix Italia, and *Unnatural Pursuits* won an Emmy; *A Month in the Country* was his adaptation of J.L. Carr's Booker-nominated novel.[7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) • [5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/)
## The diaries and late prose
The diaries began by accident. Robert McCrum, an editor at Faber, suggested in 1984 that Gray keep a diary while working with Pinter on *The Common Pursuit*, staged at the Lyric, Hammersmith; this became the first of eight volumes.[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) Earlier volumes such as *An Unnatural Pursuit*, *How's That for Telling 'Em, Fat Lady?*, *Fat Chance*, and *Enter a Fox* chronicled the making of individual productions.[5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/)
**The Smoking Diaries.** *The Smoking Diaries* (2004) was the first of four volumes of candid memoirs, followed by *The Year of the Jouncer* and *The Last Cigarette*; the last diary, *Coda*, was published posthumously in November 2008.[7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) • [3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/) The New York Times obituary noted that Gray was known for these confessional late-life memoirs as well as for his plays.[2](https://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/08/theater/08gray-1.html) With Hugh Whitemore, Gray adapted the diaries for the stage as *The Last Cigarette*, staged in 2009 and directed by Richard Eyre.[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/)
## Themes and critical standing
The BFI summary of his career states the recurring material plainly: academics in emotional crisis, messy love lives, regrets for lost youth, and the powerful bonds between men.[7](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/) His own life supplied the addiction theme; he smoked heavily and drank voluminously, champagne all day long, up to four bottles a day by his own claim, and whiskey as well, until he gave up alcohol in the late 1990s after a doctor's warning that he would shortly be dead.[2](https://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/08/theater/08gray-1.html)
**A contested place.** The Guardian's obituary observed that Gray barely figures in most books about postwar British theater, although for almost 30 years his output was prolific. Unlike the politically driven, state-of-the-nation plays of near contemporaries such as David Hare and Howard Brenton, or the metaphysical comedies of [Tom Stoppard](https://www.edgepedia.org/tom-stoppard), Gray's literate, commercial dramas were peopled by characters from the upper middle classes. The term "boulevard playwright" dogged him, though critics found deeper qualities in later work such as *The Late Middle Classes* and the highly autobiographical *Japes*.[6](https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2008/aug/07/simongray.theatre)
## Honours and legacy
Gray's honors included the Evening Standard Best Play awards for *Butley* and *Otherwise Engaged*, the Prix Italia for *After Pilkington*, an Emmy for *Unnatural Pursuits*, and the Barclay's Best Play Award for *The Late Middle Classes*.[5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/) The official site records the BAFTA Writer's Award in 1990, while Faber dates the honor as BAFTA Writer of the Year in 1991.[1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [5](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/) He was appointed CBE in the 2005 [New Year](https://www.edgepedia.org/new-year)'s Honours for services to drama and literature, and was a Fellow of the [Royal Society of Literature](https://www.edgepedia.org/royal-society-of-literature).[1](https://simongray.org.uk/) • [8](https://strasberg.edu/blog/playwright/simon-gray/)
After his death, *Coda* appeared in November 2008 and the stage adaptation *The Last Cigarette* followed in 2009, directed by Richard Eyre, extending the diary project beyond his lifetime.[3](https://simongray.org.uk/about/)
## References
1. [Simon Gray — official site (biographical summary)](https://simongray.org.uk/)
2. [Simon Gray, Playwright, Dies at 71 — The New York Times](https://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/08/theater/08gray-1.html)
3. [About — Simon Gray (official site)](https://simongray.org.uk/about/)
4. [Gray, Simon, 1936-2008 — Library of Congress Name Authority](https://id.loc.gov/authorities/names/n50033514.html)
5. [Simon Gray | Faber](https://www.faber.co.uk/author/simon-gray/)
6. [Simon Gray obituary (The Guardian)](https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2008/aug/07/simongray.theatre)
7. [BFI Screenonline: Gray, Simon (1936-2008) Biography](http://www.screenonline.org.uk/people/id/1396386/)
8. [Simon Gray — Lee Strasberg Theatre & Film Institute](https://strasberg.edu/blog/playwright/simon-gray/)
9. [Notice de personne "Gray, Simon (1936-2008)" — BnF](https://catalogue.bnf.fr/ark:/12148/cb12169728b)
10. [Gray, Simon James Holliday — Oxford Reference (Who's Who in the Theatre)](https://www.oxfordreference.com/viewbydoi/10.1093/acref/9780192825742.013.1326)
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