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Sólo con Tu Pareja

Sólo con tu pareja (released in English as Love in the Time of Hysteria) is a 1991 Mexican comedy and the feature debut of director Alfonso Cuarón, written with his brother Carlos Cuarón and photographed by Emmanuel Lubezki. A sex farce built around the AIDS panic of its era, it follows a Mexico City yuppie womanizer who is tricked into believing he is HIV positive, and it became the film that carried Cuarón, his brother, and Lubezki out of Mexican state cinema and toward Hollywood.¹^•²

Key fact	Detail
Production	Mexican feature, 1991, 94 minutes, color, Spanish; comedy/romance¹^•³
Director and writers	Directed by Alfonso Cuarón; screenplay by Carlos Cuarón, his first feature and Carlos's first screenplay¹^•⁴^•¹³
Key crew	Cinematography Emmanuel Lubezki, music Carlos Warman, production design Brigitte Broch¹
Lead cast	Daniel Giménez Cacho as Tomás Tomás; Claudia Ramírez as Clarisa Negrete; Luis de Icaza and Astrid Hadad in supporting roles²
Plot device	A spurned nurse types "positive" on Tomás's AIDS test; believing he is dying, he falls in love for the first time⁵
Award	Ariel for best original screenplay, Academia Mexicana de Artes y Ciencias Cinematográficas, 1992¹
Reception	67% on the Rotten Tomatoes Tomatometer (12 reviews); Metascore 61 on Metacritic⁶^•⁷

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Story and characters

Tomás Tomás (Daniel Giménez Cacho) is a young advertising executive and a contemporary Don Juan who juggles so many lovers that he cannot keep their names straight, and who refuses to use condoms even in the era of the DC-10, the microwave oven, and AIDS. After one of his conquests, a nurse named Silvia, is spurned, she takes revenge by typing "positive" on his AIDS test. Believing he is dying, Tomás looks for a quick and painless way to end his life, and on a ledge four floors up he falls in love for the first time, with Clarisa Negrete (Claudia Ramírez), a flight attendant with a broken heart who is seeking the same solution.¹^•⁵^•⁸

The film's wordplay extends to its names: besides Tomás Tomás, the cast includes Mateo Mateos (Luis de Icaza), Teresa de Teresa (Astrid Hadad), and a character referred to as Patricia from Pathology.³

Production and state funding

The film emerged from Mexico's state funding system for cinema at a low point for the national industry. Cuarón later said he decided to treat the Mexican government, which financed the film, as a business partner rather than a patron, insisting that he held the majority share of his own movie; the response was that he would not film with them again.³^•⁹ The finished film was initially shelved by the government, but when it was finally released in Mexico in 1991 it became a popular and critical success.³

In a 2017 masterclass at Cannes, Cuarón explained his intentions: he wanted a comedy in the rhythm of Ernst Lubitsch, close to the contemporary energy of Martin Scorsese's After Hours, and he wanted to mock the prejudices then current in Mexico about AIDS, which was seen as affecting women and, above all, homosexual men rather than heterosexual men.¹⁰ The film's satire of Mexican culture included a public-service AIDS campaign within the story.³

Path to Hollywood

The film premiered at the Toronto festival, where Cuarón attended with Lubezki and Carlos Cuarón while, by his account, bankrupt and burned bridges with the Mexican government behind him. The film was well received; the director Sidney Pollack saw it and, in Cuarón's words, launched him to Hollywood. Cuarón described the following years as a long limbo of development projects, the most he filmed being an episode of the television series Fallen Angels.¹⁰ The success of the debut drew attention from Hollywood producers, and the Cuarón brothers and Lubezki were invited to work in the United States.⁴

The collaboration regrouped a decade later: Cuarón returned to Mexico in 2001 to film Y tu mamá también, a story he and his brother had carried since the Sólo con tu pareja period, this time as co-producer and under far more favorable commercial conditions.⁹^•¹¹

Reception and legacy

Critics reviewing the film around its 2006 United States release treated it as a rough but promising debut. A. O. Scott of The New York Times called it a rambunctious sex comedy shadowed by mortality and admired its camera movement and cheeky self-confidence; the Miami Herald praised the camera work and sharply defined characters; the Village Voice found the dialogue heavy with old aphorisms and clichés.⁷ Wesley Morris noted that the film challenged the stigma around AIDS, albeit for heterosexuals, at a moment when the disease was still considered a death sentence.⁷

Later commentary placed the film in context. The Criterion essayist Ryan F. Long grouped it with the early-1990s Mexican films of Carlos Carrera (La mujer de Benjamín, 1991) and María Novaro (Danzón, 1991) as part of a generation of young filmmakers breaking from the tired fare of the 1980s.³ A scholar cited in a Cornell study credited the film with restoring the Mexican middle-class film audience by giving them a reason to return to the cinema.¹² Criterion, which issued the film as Spine #353 with a high-definition restoration supervised by Lubezki, described it as a wildly successful debut that gave voice to a Mexican middle class largely unseen onscreen; the same page notes it had never been released theatrically in the United States.²

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