# Tammy Lynn Michaels
**Tammy Lynn Michaels** (birth name Tammy Lynn Doring; born 1974 in [Lafayette, Indiana](https://www.edgepedia.org/lafayette-indiana)) is an American actress best known for playing the acerbic Nicole Julian on The WB comedy-drama *Popular* (1999–2001), Tess on the NBC sitcom *Committed* (2005), and Lacey Haraway on Showtime's *The L Word* (2004)[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/) • [2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582). She is also known publicly as the former partner of singer [Melissa Etheridge](https://www.edgepedia.org/melissa-etheridge)[3](https://queerbio.com/wiki/index.php?title=Tammy_Lynn_Michaels).
| Key fact | Detail |
|---|---|
| Born | 1974, Lafayette, Indiana, USA; birth name Tammy Lynn Doring[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/) |
| Signature role | Nicole Julian on *Popular*, 43 episodes, 1999–2001[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582) |
| Other main roles | Tess on *Committed* (13 episodes, 2005); Lacey Haraway on *The L Word* (3 episodes, 2004); Patty on *That '80s Show* (3 episodes, 2002)[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582) |
| Film and later TV | Max in the short *D.E.B.S.* (2003); Ellen in *Itty Bitty Titty Committee* (2007); Bitsy in *Dolly Parton's Heartstrings*, episode "Cracker Jack" (2019)[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582) • [4](https://www.allocine.fr/personne/fichepersonne-84143/filmographie/) |
| Coming out | Outed by girlfriend Melissa Etheridge in a People interview in 2002, shortly after the finale of *Popular*[5](https://afterellen.com/tammy-lynn-michaels-comes-out-an-un-popular-career-move/) |
| Children | Twins Miller Steven Etheridge and Johnnie Rose Etheridge, born 2006[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/) |
## Early life and training
Michaels was raised in Lafayette, Indiana, where she graduated from Lafayette Jefferson High School[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/). As a teenager she was an athlete who later turned to theater, performing lead roles in musicals[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/). After graduation she moved to New York City to attend the American Musical and Dramatic Academy, where her training covered improv, dialects, ballroom dance, and stage combat[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/).
**Early work.** In 1998 she appeared in national commercials for brands including Sprint, DuPont, Secret, GTE, and Ponds[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/). By one account, an acting scout approached her while she worked in a restaurant, and commercial work followed before her television casting[6](https://www.rottentomatoes.com/celebrity/tammy_lynn_michaels).
## Popular and the Nicole Julian role
Michaels's break came in 1999 when she was cast as Nicole Julian on *Popular*, a teen comedy-drama on The WB created by Ryan Murphy[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/) • [7](https://www.marieclaire.com/culture/g34834320/best-2000s-tv-shows/). She played the role for 43 episodes across the show's two seasons, 1999 to 2001[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582).
The character, a wealthy, unsympathetic enforcer of the school's social hierarchy, became her calling card. Apple TV's profile describes Michaels's portrayal as a comic highlight of the show whose flair for the dramatic made her "the camp icon for a new generation"[8](https://tv.apple.com/us/person/tammy-lynn-michaels/umc.cpc.11k0unpccc0z9njlenppivtbt). AfterEllen noted that the character was so viciously witty that teen magazines dubbed her the "Queen of Mean"[5](https://afterellen.com/tammy-lynn-michaels-comes-out-an-un-popular-career-move/). *Popular* was canceled after two seasons due to poor ratings[5](https://afterellen.com/tammy-lynn-michaels-comes-out-an-un-popular-career-move/).
## Coming out and relationship with Melissa Etheridge
In 2002 Michaels was outed by her girlfriend, the singer-songwriter Melissa Etheridge, in an interview with People magazine, shortly after the finale of *Popular*[5](https://afterellen.com/tammy-lynn-michaels-comes-out-an-un-popular-career-move/). At the time, AfterEllen framed this as a career risk for a 26-year-old actress with a largely teen fan base who had not yet signed on to new roles[5](https://afterellen.com/tammy-lynn-michaels-comes-out-an-un-popular-career-move/). Etheridge later publicly acknowledged her in the Advocate as her partner[9](https://www.advocate.com/news/2003/12/24/melissa-amp-tammy-love-story).
Michaels described taking the surname Etheridge at home while keeping Michaels professionally[10](https://roevkassen.dk/blog/tammy-lynn-michaels-iii/). In a 2005 Advocate interview, she spoke about helping Etheridge through chemotherapy following Etheridge's October 2004 [lumpectomy](https://www.edgepedia.org/lumpectomy) for breast cancer, at the same time she was filming *Committed*[11](https://www.advocate.com/news/2005/03/15/tammy-lynn-michaels). She gave birth to twins, Miller Steven Etheridge and Johnnie Rose Etheridge, in October 2006[1](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/). The couple later separated, as reported by Autostraddle around the end of the 2000s[12](https://www.autostraddle.com/melissa-etheridge-tammy-lynn-michaels-split-42065/).
## Later acting career
After *Popular*, Michaels took guest and recurring television roles: Patty on *That '80s Show* (2002, 3 episodes) and Lacey Haraway on *The L Word* (2004, 3 episodes), a character she described in the Advocate as "that lesbian who ... slept with you, but now she's going to stalk you"[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582) • [9](https://www.advocate.com/news/2003/12/24/melissa-amp-tammy-love-story). Her connection to *The L Word* came through writer and director Angela Robinson, who had written and directed the short film *D.E.B.S.* (2003) in which Michaels played Max, and who was writing for the series when Michaels was invited to guest star[9](https://www.advocate.com/news/2003/12/24/melissa-amp-tammy-love-story).
Her largest post-*Popular* role was as series regular Tess, a live-in nanny, on the NBC sitcom *Committed* (2005), in 13 episodes[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582) • [13](https://www.tvmaze.com/people/61360/tammy-lynn-michaels). Film work included Ellen in the 2007 comedy *Itty Bitty Titty Committee*[4](https://www.allocine.fr/personne/fichepersonne-84143/filmographie/). In 2019 she returned to television as Bitsy in the *Dolly Parton's Heartstrings* episode "Cracker Jack"[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582) • [13](https://www.tvmaze.com/people/61360/tammy-lynn-michaels). She also appeared as "the friend" in Melissa Etheridge's 2001 music video "I Want to Be in Love"[2](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582).
## References
1. [Tammy Lynn Michaels – Biography, IMDb](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582/bio/)
2. [Tammy Lynn Michaels, IMDb](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005582)
3. [Tammy Lynn Michaels, QueerBio.com](https://queerbio.com/wiki/index.php?title=Tammy_Lynn_Michaels)
4. [Tammy Lynn Michaels : Filmographie, AlloCiné](https://www.allocine.fr/personne/fichepersonne-84143/filmographie/)
5. [Tammy Lynn Michaels Comes Out — an Un-“Popular” Career Move? (Sarah Warn, AfterEllen, April 18, 2002)](https://afterellen.com/tammy-lynn-michaels-comes-out-an-un-popular-career-move/)
6. [Tammy Lynn Michaels, Rotten Tomatoes](https://www.rottentomatoes.com/celebrity/tammy_lynn_michaels)
7. [The 51 Best 2000s TV Shows to Binge-Watch All Over Again, Marie Claire](https://www.marieclaire.com/culture/g34834320/best-2000s-tv-shows/)
8. [Tammy Lynn Michaels Movies and Shows, Apple TV](https://tv.apple.com/us/person/tammy-lynn-michaels/umc.cpc.11k0unpccc0z9njlenppivtbt)
9. [Melissa & Tammy: A love story, The Advocate (December 24, 2003)](https://www.advocate.com/news/2003/12/24/melissa-amp-tammy-love-story)
10. [Mrs. Etheridge Is Committed (TV Guide Online interview, republished March 28, 2004)](https://roevkassen.dk/blog/tammy-lynn-michaels-iii/)
11. [Tammy Lynn Michaels: Committed to love, The Advocate (March 15, 2005)](https://www.advocate.com/news/2005/03/15/tammy-lynn-michaels)
12. [Melissa Etheridge & Tammy Lynn Michaels Split, Autostraddle](https://www.autostraddle.com/melissa-etheridge-tammy-lynn-michaels-split-42065/)
13. [Tammy Lynn Michaels, TVmaze](https://www.tvmaze.com/people/61360/tammy-lynn-michaels)
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